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Frequently Asked Questions

What is mentoring?
A mentor is an adult who befriends a younger person. It's all about being friends, sharing common interests, and being exposed to new interests. It's about teaching new skills to the youngster. At Kinship Partners, the mentor and child normally spend 2 to 3 hours a week together and commit to a one relationship year. Often the match will continue beyond that first year.

Why would a child need a mentor?
All kids need many positive caring adults in their life. With families being spread out geographically, and many families separated for a variety of reasons, access to adults may be limited. Some kids simply need extra attention or a boost in their self-esteem. Some need more opportunities to experience positive leisure activities. Some may need a little help with their social skills.

What about me - the parent?
The parent's role always comes first. The mentor is not there to replace the parent's authority or role. He or she is there to be another special adult in the life of your child - much like a favorite aunt or uncle, grandma or grandpa. Studies have shown that many parents experience an improved relationship with their child after their child has been matched with a mentor.

Where do mentors come from?
They are caring adults in your community who truly like kids. Kinship Partners staff often speak with churches and civic groups, encouraging adults to consider being mentors. The mentor application process is thorough - providing three references, a criminal background check, and an extensive interview prior to being matched. Our mentors tell us they enjoy the mentoring relationship as much as the child!

Do I have a say in who my child is matched with?
Absolutely! The parent always has the final approval. You know your child best. We encourage your input and frank discussion during the match process.

How do I apply to get a mentor for my child?
Contact the Kinship Partners office. You will be sent a parent application and a child application to complete or follow link. Both are fairly brief. Upon completion, we will set up a time to interview you and your child so that we have an opportunity to get to know you and understand the kind of person you'd like as a mentor for your child.